Friday, 21 September 2012
This is not a whining post as i often say it is just things i like to share and that i find interesting as time passes by. There was this man with a truck that became my first real man boyfriend when i was 52 years old. I was living then in a building and in the ground floor there was an auction business. They had auctions sales every Tuesdays and Thursdays. I was very happy to have his visits and he also seemed happy. This lasted at least a year. He ate a lot of food also. As a self employed person, and a labor he used among his various jobs to collect all sorts of junks, from pipes, to furnitures anything one can name. It took me quite a while perhaps 2 years or more to realize that he only visited me on auction days. But that was after our frienship ended. So every time he dumped his truck at the auction downstairs he came and visited me after. No dump no visit. Metaphysically speaking this makes sense. One stone two birds..And by all means i am not resentful, as i still talk to this person when i see him on the street or at the store. But having known better would i lend myself to such deal knowingly ? Readers could think that this man was just unrefined but not necessarily..he could recites pages of Milton by heart..so it has nothing to do with a lack of education.. So what would make people not see what's going on ? Not being aware when things happen right at the moment ? Seing things only after they have happened ?